Imagine finding a community you love—and having some of your closest friends living nearby.
For people planning retirement or a lifestyle move, that idea can be appealing. But would moving to the same community as your friends actually work for you?
The answer depends on whether the community fits each person's lifestyle, budget, and long-term plans.
Living in the same community can make it easier to enjoy everyday life together without giving up your independence.
You might meet for dinner, play golf or pickleball, walk together, attend community events, or simply stop by for a visit.
And because everyone has their own home, you can enjoy being close while maintaining your own routines.
This is the most important question.
Don't choose a community simply because your friends love it. Each person should independently consider:
A great community should still feel like the right choice even if your friends weren't living there.
Absolutely. Exploring communities together gives everyone the opportunity to see homes, experience amenities, meet residents, and explore the surrounding area.
You can compare what each person likes—and quickly discover where your priorities overlap.
Another option is attending a Best Places to Live Real Estate Show together, where you can meet representatives from multiple communities and destinations in one place.
That's okay.
Retiring near friends doesn't require living on the same street. You may find different communities in the same destination that better match your individual preferences.
Being a short drive apart may provide exactly the balance you're looking for: friendship nearby and independence at home.
If living near friends is becoming part of your relocation plans, start by comparing what each of you wants from your next destination.
For more ideas, visit our main guide:
Moving & Retiring Near Friends: How to Plan Your Next Chapter Together
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