Relocation
retirement planning
Relocation Planning
Relocation
retirement planning
55+ Communities
Would You Move to the Same Community as Your Friends?
Gina Howard
Imagine finding a community you love—and having some of your closest friends living nearby.
For people planning retirement or a lifestyle move, that idea can be appealing. But would moving to the same community as your friends actually work for you?
The answer depends on whether the community fits each person's lifestyle, budget, and long-term plans.
Why Would Friends Choose the Same Community?
Living in the same community can make it easier to enjoy everyday life together without giving up your independence.
You might meet for dinner, play golf or pickleball, walk together, attend community events, or simply stop by for a visit.
And because everyone has their own home, you can enjoy being close while maintaining your own routines.
Does the Community Work for Everyone?
This is the most important question.
Don't choose a community simply because your friends love it. Each person should independently consider:
- Home styles and prices
- Amenities and activities
- Healthcare access
- Location and climate
- HOA fees and community costs
- Walkability and transportation
- Proximity to family and travel
A great community should still feel like the right choice even if your friends weren't living there.
Should You Tour Communities Together?
Absolutely. Exploring communities together gives everyone the opportunity to see homes, experience amenities, meet residents, and explore the surrounding area.
You can compare what each person likes—and quickly discover where your priorities overlap.
Another option is attending a Best Places to Live Real Estate Show together, where you can meet representatives from multiple communities and destinations in one place.
What If You Like Different Communities?
That's okay.
Retiring near friends doesn't require living on the same street. You may find different communities in the same destination that better match your individual preferences.
Being a short drive apart may provide exactly the balance you're looking for: friendship nearby and independence at home.
Explore Your Next Chapter Together
If living near friends is becoming part of your relocation plans, start by comparing what each of you wants from your next destination.
For more ideas, visit our main guide:
Moving & Retiring Near Friends: How to Plan Your Next Chapter Together
Know Someone Who's Thinking About Moving?
Share ideal-LIVING with a friend and start exploring your possibilities together.
